Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Handling conflict - JAMES 1:19-20


Anatomy of a conflict:

The spark - a wound, perceived wound


Anatomy of a conflict:

The catalyst - a human/emotional, non-spiritual reaction


Anatomy of a conflict:

The fuel - weak/disengaged spiritual life. Makes anger readily available

 

4 truths for handling conflict:

1.     a given fact, so be prepared. "You know this".

2.     you are responsible!  Instructions are in your control

3.     conflict creates strong reactions. Handle with care

4.     each instructions deals with the elements that cause or fuel conflict.

 

Handling conflict

·       Listen

·       Slow to speak

·       Deal with the anger

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